Learn to Talk to Girls
You, Mr. Shy Guy, don't understand how easy it is to talk to attractive girls. You see them and you automatically think rejection is a guarantee. The reason why is because you are intimidated by their beauty. It's okay, a lot of men are. The only problem I have is you won't admit it. You'll make excuses saying that you are waiting for the right moment, she has a boyfriend, or she has some kind of imperfection. Do you know how ridiculous that sounds? Do you want to know why I know this about you? I thought this way years ago.
Learn to Talk to Girls
I thought that if a girl was attractive that she was out of my league. To me, a girl who I liked automatically meant rejection. Then one day I just said, "I want to be able to learn how to talk to girls that I like without the fear of rejection." The first thing I needed to do was unlearn the crap that I've accumulated over the years. It took a while but it was worth it... I needed to unlearn before I can learn. After that I needed to acquire some principles to live by in order to be able to talk to girls without fear.
You think that girls are scary and they'll reject you as soon as you step to them but this is not true. The only reason why you don't have success is because you don't know the principles to keep girls interested in you... and I don't mean trying to impress them. As a matter of fact, the more you try to impress them, the more likely you'll have a fear that they'll leave you if you don't outdo yourself or anyone who is around. This makes you self-conscious, it will shine through, and they will leave you for another guy who doesn't try so hard.
Girls hate it when guys try too hard because it shows a lack of confidence. They also hate when a guy doesn't have the confidence to get up and talk to them. Talking to girls is not just about trying to approach them, it's also about checking them when they step outta like, either subtly or overtly. When a girl steps outta line and gets away with it, she will lose respect for you. Checking a girl is not about physical or verbal abuse - it's about letting her know that she needs to speak to you or treat you in a manner that you want her to treat you... with respect. Most guys think that as long as she is talking to them that they've won, but if she is disrespectful towards him, that's actually worse than not talking to her at all. If she respects you, she can grow to like you, and this is what you want. But first you must learn the principles to get that respect from her.
Learn to Talk to Girls
Learn to Talk to Girls
I thought that if a girl was attractive that she was out of my league. To me, a girl who I liked automatically meant rejection. Then one day I just said, "I want to be able to learn how to talk to girls that I like without the fear of rejection." The first thing I needed to do was unlearn the crap that I've accumulated over the years. It took a while but it was worth it... I needed to unlearn before I can learn. After that I needed to acquire some principles to live by in order to be able to talk to girls without fear.
You think that girls are scary and they'll reject you as soon as you step to them but this is not true. The only reason why you don't have success is because you don't know the principles to keep girls interested in you... and I don't mean trying to impress them. As a matter of fact, the more you try to impress them, the more likely you'll have a fear that they'll leave you if you don't outdo yourself or anyone who is around. This makes you self-conscious, it will shine through, and they will leave you for another guy who doesn't try so hard.
Girls hate it when guys try too hard because it shows a lack of confidence. They also hate when a guy doesn't have the confidence to get up and talk to them. Talking to girls is not just about trying to approach them, it's also about checking them when they step outta like, either subtly or overtly. When a girl steps outta line and gets away with it, she will lose respect for you. Checking a girl is not about physical or verbal abuse - it's about letting her know that she needs to speak to you or treat you in a manner that you want her to treat you... with respect. Most guys think that as long as she is talking to them that they've won, but if she is disrespectful towards him, that's actually worse than not talking to her at all. If she respects you, she can grow to like you, and this is what you want. But first you must learn the principles to get that respect from her.
Learn to Talk to Girls